Explore Your Deepest Desires With ‘Body Kink’ (NSFW)


Daring new service allows you to safely explore your secret adult fantasies…

As children, we’re often told: “If you can dream it, then you can live it.” Sadly, that concept gets thrown out the window when we enter adulthood. Our dreams evolve into fantasies that society would prefer for us to keep hidden. Even Sin City, the land of extreme pleasure, has so many laws and restrictions in place that sometimes it doesn’t seem worth the risks to investigate the possibilities.

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Now there’s BODYKINK.COM, a free platform that safely allows your dreams to become reality. The site was launched by entertainer and personal trainer Ryan Worley, an ambitious young man whose own personal journey is a page-turner (read his unforgettable story HERE). Body Kink brings its members (aka “fans”) together with high-quality attractive models in order to experience consensual fantasy scenes.

The first question that undoubtedly crosses your mind is “Can this be legal?”. The answer is quite simply…yes! As long as both “model” and “fan” remain within certain liberal guidelines, there is nothing illegal about this service. Worley has consulted legal experts to ensure that Body Kink operates entirely within the parameters of the law.

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It took the 29-year-old about eight months of careful planning and research to make Body Kink a reality. He could barely contain his excitement when it finally came to fruition.

The idea for Body Kink popped into my head in August of 2019. I had a roommate, Davin, who made most of his money from muscle-worshipping sessions, fantasy dates and selling used underwear. He was marketing himself on social media, but Instagram was threatening to take down his profile because of the content.

I realized that there is a disconnect between models and Fans. It is completely legal but just not talked about that much, even though the demand is there. So, I was suddenly on a mission to create a safe place for models and Fans to interact with their kinks and fetishes.

Becoming a fan or model at Body Kink is free. It doesn’t require a sign-up fee or recurring subscription. After creating a personal profile, fans can browse through available models, each of whom has their own detailed page. Models provide photos, brief personal descriptions and a list of the scenes they’re into (or willing to participate in) for a fee.

Body Kink is for the Fans and the models. I like to think that I work for them by creating a platform where they can interact. I want them to have a great experience in a safe place. They can express themselves and have their kinks fulfilled without any “kink shaming.” My mission is to normalize having a kink, no matter how unique or rare it is.

Shame is an emotion that Ryan Worley fought against for a very long time. He experienced sexual stigmas while growing up in a strict Mormon household. That background negatively affected his relationships, self-image, and confidence. Determined to break free, he arrived in Las Vegas just a few short years ago and set out to rediscover life on his own terms.

Taking a position in a prominent male revue became a catalyst for Worley’s personal growth. He came to appreciate the importance of human sexuality in all of its forms. No matter who we are, what we look like or where we come from, all of us were conceived through physical interaction and it’s a part of our very essence.

The tag line that I came up with is “What’s Yours?”. It implies that we all have kinks and should be open to discovering them…as long as they fall within the law. I want to keep this site completely legal, so we don’t offer anything in the gray area (like feces or urine) or anything violent.

One of my favorite sections is called “Custom Kink.” Kinks are very unique and personal, so it’s impossible to represent all of them. I created a section where Fans can post their unique kink and then models will apply for it. (Btw, I’m always looking for quality models to represent the brand).

The Fan can put a price they are willing to pay or can have models come at them with their best price. This is a great section because Fans can be represented in their own way and can browse what others are requesting, allowing everyone to explore what they might be interested in.

You might notice that Body Kink membership is pretty heavy on the male side of the spectrum. That should come as no surprise to anyone familiar with erotic adult industries. But in 2020, definitions of both gender and sexual identity have become somewhat fluid.

The Models Directory offers categories of “All Men”, “All Women” and “All Others”, but what you won’t find are labels like “Gay”, “Straight” and “Bi-sexual”. Why? Because it’s perfectly normal for an identifying heterosexual to explore kissing, touching, and other physical/emotional experiences with members of the same sex.

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Along with being the creator and CEO of Body Kink, Worley lists himself as a premium model. It’s clear that he stands behind his philosophy of supporting desires without judgment. When I questioned him about the “Reviews” section, where members can see that he’s had physical encounters with other men, his response was “I honestly don’t care, lol. Maybe I’ll rub off on people.”

What Ryan does care about, though, is channeling Body Kink into a powerhouse engine for positive action. Along with being a safe haven, the site has partnered with two important charities – Golden Rainbow of Las Vegas and The Trevor Project.

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Golden Rainbow is a Vegas local charity that helps individuals suffering from HIV/Aids. I met with Gary Costa, their Executive Director, and was blown away by his passion to make a difference. He gave up a job that pays twice as much because he truly wants to help people with HIV/Aids. After meeting with him I knew that I wanted to help, so a portion of Body Kink‘s profits each month will go to Golden Rainbow.

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The Trevor Project is a suicide-prevention foundation with a great story and a great cause (dedicated to saving young LGBTQ lives). I love what they do and what they represent. Eventually, I will start my own foundation where I can give back on a greater scale. But for now, helping these two charities makes me feel like I am making a difference. I’m sure that most of the Fans on Bodykink.com will love to be a part of these fantastic charities.

We’re currently experiencing social turbulence, not unlike the cultural upheavals of the ’60s. The harder that we push towards freedom in our lives, the more difficult that struggle seems to become. Body Kink is dedicated to providing positive change, and the timing couldn’t be better.

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This has been a long and stressful journey, trying to get Body Kink off the ground. But I know the positive impact it will have on both the Fans and the models. I want to make a difference…and I want to build a brand that people are proud to represent and be a part of.

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Photos: Noel Dahl, Body Kink, Sam Novak, The Trevor Project, Golden Rainbow

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

From Mormon to Male Revue: One Man’s Evolution, Vegas-style


Chippendales performer Ryan Worley’s solitary road to redemption…

Sin City’s adult production shows have been around for decades. In other cities, sexy performers might be viewed with a certain disdain, but here they are regarded with a unique reverence.

The showgirls of Jubilee! and Folies Bergere will always be iconic. The men of Aussie Heat are genuine bonafide trained dancers of impressive skill. The ladies of SEXXY and FANTASY work hard for the money. And then there are the Chippendales…a macho, muscular troupe whose name is synonymous with classy male entertainment.

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       Ryan and fellow Chipp James Davis don purple to support LGBTQ youth…

In a recent article I called the men of ChippendalesShirtless Angels of Charity“. They do indeed spend plenty of time contributing wonderful work for the Las Vegas community. But first and foremost, they’re a hunky bunch of guys who grind out sets in the gym before bumping and grinding onstage.

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Twenty-seven year old Ryan Worley never imagined that one day he’d be taking off his clothes for a paying audience. Raised within the strict guidelines and culture of the Church of Latter Day Saints, Worley was as far from Chippendales stock as one could imagine.

Yet we don’t always know what’s around the corner or lies over the horizon. And Ryan’s life so far has been anything but predictable.

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                         Ryan (far left) in a family photo with his siblings…

I was born in California on August 6th, 1990 and am the second oldest of four kids. We were raised in the Mormon religion and devoted to the church. After high school I was dating a girl who was not a Mormon…and being with her made me not want to serve my two-year mission.

Not volunteering for missionary work is very frowned upon within the culture. People will go as far as to shunning you for it…and that was the case for me.

Instead, I went to college at Brigham Young University in Idaho. This is a Mormon school and they have three campuses (Provo, Utah is the largest and most popular). I completed three semesters there and eventually transferred to Utah Valley University.

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While attending Utah Valley University, Ryan lived with a friend whose father was a Mormon Bishop. It was clear that, despite avoiding missionary service and not being very active any longer, his exposure to the Latter Day Saints Movement was deeply entrenched in every aspect of his life.

At the age of twenty, Worley was attracted to a fellow employee at the pizza parlor where he moonlighted. This young lady was active in the Mormon church and got Ryan to attend again. After dating for two years the couple got married…but their romance was short-lived.

Someone once told me when we first married that the number one cause of divorce is unmet expectations…a sentence which resonated inside me. That’s when I got into fitness. The gym became my sanctuary and a place where I could let go.

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Throwing himself into the lifestyle of intense fitness was very therapeutic. While building his body, Ryan acquired a new level of self-esteem which was critical in this period. The change to his physique was astounding. Still, it wasn’t enough to mend the difficulties with his bride.

I told her that I wanted a divorce and she didn’t put up much of a fight. We sold our house and she went back to southern California…I moved north to the Salt Lake City area.

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Ryan dove head-first into the fitness industry, serving as a Fitness Nutrition Specialist for a company called Complete Nutrition. While adjusting to a newly-single life in his small apartment, he was helping others get their own lives back on track. Knowing how to design customized meal plans for clients was invaluable when Worley planned to enter his first bodybuilding competition.

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Spending hours at home on his stationary bike, Ryan discovered the documentary The Perfect Physique on Netflix (readers may recall that I covered the red-carpet premiere of this film at Palms Casino during the 2015 Mr. Olympia).

Ever since I got into fitness I’d wanted to do modeling and end up on a cover of a magazine. TJ Hoban, who is a well-known fitness model, was talking in the film about the difficulties he’d faced, like when he had a serious onstage accident during a Chippendales performance back in the 90’s.

I’d heard about Chippendales before but didn’t know exactly what it was or what it entailed. What I did know was that if my idol TJ Hoban was part of it, then it must be something great.

I went online and immediately filled out an application, submitted a few pictures and told a little about myself…but I never actually expected to hear back from them.

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                                        Actor/model/fitness star TJ Hoban…

Even though his own performance experience was limited to a small Mormon singing/dancing group, Ryan was bursting with excitement…and hope. After applying, he joked with his Complete Nutrition employer that if Chippendales hired him he’d need to give notice.

Two weeks later, an email arrived from the show’s General Manager for an invitation-only audition:

I needed to rent a car for the drive from Utah to Vegas because my own was so crappy. Nobody knew about the audition. When I arrived early in the day, it was straight to the gym to pump up and look my best.

I was one of about fifteen guys there…and they all looked incredible. Kristen Makhathini (the show’s General Manager at the time) led the audition and had us take our shirts off for head shots.

We got on stage and began learning choreography. This was all very new to me. After about ten minutes, they split us into groups and mine was first. We ran through the routine a couple of times, then Kristen said “Alright guys, we are going to start cutting people so if you hear your name we don’t need you anymore and thank you for coming out”. The next sentence made my stomach drop: “Everyone in the first group except for Ryan can go home. Thank you”.

These other guys had flown in from all over the world and it was over for them in less than twenty minutes! My heart was beating out of my chest! They narrowed us down to four of us and said we’d know in a week. There were two spots, one for touring and another for the Vegas show. The tour manager came up to me and asked if I was able to get a passport. “I think I want to steal you for the tour” she said.

My mind went crazy…why did she just say “steal”? Did that mean I got the Vegas spot? That evening I watched the show for the first time, drove back to Utah overnight and never told anyone about it.

When the call came that he’d be a part of the Vegas production, it was time to shock his boss with the news of what he’d done…and to give that resignation notice they’d kidded about.

Along with this sudden change in his life’s course was the realization that he’d be stirring up controversy with his conservative friends and family.

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When I asked him what kind of reactions he received after telling people about Chippendales, Ryan sighed and took a moment to collect his thoughts. He was reluctant to slam the culture he’d been a part of for so long, but felt that he’d somehow broken free of someone else’s control and was ready to speak out about it.

My family has had a rough time with my new career but I knew they probably would. They don’t fully understand it or know what it is.

I’m no longer a member of the Mormon church but my friends and loved ones are and I want to respect that. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, but the truth is that they teach you to be close-minded. I remember how my siblings and I were treated after our parents divorced. We sat in the back of the church, alone, like outcasts among our own people.

Mormons have their own stance on issues and you have to accept them as yours. When I grew up, I found myself asking “Are these values mine because I’m naturally a good person or were they were taught to me by the church?. Even now I’m not sure, but my mom did bring me up to be a respectful man.

Worley went on to discuss things about the Mormon culture that still concern him. Matters like their unequal treatment of minorities and the LGBTQ community. He feels that’s why a lot of Americans are now leaving the church…and why it currently targets impressionable third-world countries.

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But now that he’s found a new “family” with his Chippendales brothers and their socially-positive work, Ryan Worley is ready to move forward and continue making things better for himself…and others.

I’ve been a Chippendale for almost a year now and love everything it has to offer. I get to do charity work in the community and appear on numerous TV shows. It feels like my years of struggle are over. This is my big break…I go to work and people cheer for me!

I reached out to TJ Hoban and Kandice King (directer of The Perfect Physique), told them my story and how much that documentary changed my life. They seemed very happy to have helped make my life a little better.

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After interviewing Ryan for this piece, I attended a performance of Chippendales at the Rio. Sitting in front of me, right up against the stage, was a group of his buddies. They’d come to Vegas to see for themselves what their longtime friend was now a part of. And they cheered just as wildly as everyone else in the audience.

Watching Ryan’s friends gather around him in the lounge after the show was a thrill to witness and experience. This young man had finally gained confidence and acceptance from his peers. And he’d done it on his own terms.

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“I’ve always felt like I was meant for big things and want to influence people in a positive way. Maybe my story can do the same for others”.

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You can read more about Ryan and his current projects in my column “Hot Guys of Vegas – Eye of the Beholder“.

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Photos: Sammasseur, Ryan Worley, The Perfect Physique, Chippendales via Facebook